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		<title>By: Alex</title>
		<link>http://khikwai.com/blog/2009/01/25/the-abhisit-tragedy/comment-page-1/#comment-516</link>
		<dc:creator>Alex</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 07:26:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>something more @ Tom: &quot;Her views as responded to by me in defence of Thais were transparently silly and are at least as racially motivated as those she complains are racially motivated because they criticise Thais.
If a person makes silly comments, it is pointless to say they have previously made some intelligent ones. No? Otherwise one is simply being personal&quot; 
So long with open mindedness: what feels silly to you doesn&#039;t necessarily have to feel silly to others. Dismissing it as &quot;silly&quot;, though, denotes a strong tinge of arrogance. As I read it, she was in no way defending the Thais, but merely stating the obvious: not all Thais are like that, and the ones who aren&#039;t are not happy to be described that way. Which, I think, is fair enough.
There&#039;s more: &quot;Did you seriously never hear of the 5 Ki’s that Thais use to describe their own people? Ki-ooat (boastful), Ki-kong (cheating), Ki-kiat (lazy), Ki-itcha (covetous) and Li-lohp (grasping). This is what Thai culture says about Thais.&quot;
I&#039;d like to point out that self-criticism is a good thing. There are many things I don&#039;t like about Thailand and the Thais, but this particular thing is good: it means people are aware of their own flaws. This, for example doesn&#039;t often happen with Northern Europeans and Americans. I love Scandinavian countries and people, for example, but some people in those countries are not exactly ready to openly identify their countries&#039; flaws. Still, I would never write such things as &quot;Scandinavians are not humble&quot;.  In other words... Tom, face it, you fucked up... apologize, it&#039;s better.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>something more @ Tom: &#8220;Her views as responded to by me in defence of Thais were transparently silly and are at least as racially motivated as those she complains are racially motivated because they criticise Thais.<br />
If a person makes silly comments, it is pointless to say they have previously made some intelligent ones. No? Otherwise one is simply being personal&#8221;<br />
So long with open mindedness: what feels silly to you doesn&#8217;t necessarily have to feel silly to others. Dismissing it as &#8220;silly&#8221;, though, denotes a strong tinge of arrogance. As I read it, she was in no way defending the Thais, but merely stating the obvious: not all Thais are like that, and the ones who aren&#8217;t are not happy to be described that way. Which, I think, is fair enough.<br />
There&#8217;s more: &#8220;Did you seriously never hear of the 5 Ki’s that Thais use to describe their own people? Ki-ooat (boastful), Ki-kong (cheating), Ki-kiat (lazy), Ki-itcha (covetous) and Li-lohp (grasping). This is what Thai culture says about Thais.&#8221;<br />
I&#8217;d like to point out that self-criticism is a good thing. There are many things I don&#8217;t like about Thailand and the Thais, but this particular thing is good: it means people are aware of their own flaws. This, for example doesn&#8217;t often happen with Northern Europeans and Americans. I love Scandinavian countries and people, for example, but some people in those countries are not exactly ready to openly identify their countries&#8217; flaws. Still, I would never write such things as &#8220;Scandinavians are not humble&#8221;.  In other words&#8230; Tom, face it, you fucked up&#8230; apologize, it&#8217;s better.</p>
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		<title>By: Alex</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 07:13:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tom, do you honestly think all or most Thais match with your description? And do you really think Joy doesn&#039;t have a right to feel insulted even though she knows many (not most) Thais are actually roughly similar to the characters you depicted? You know what I think? I think that by being so harsh and overly direct and prone to generalization when you voice your opinions, you&#039;re actually confirming that the many people in Thailand who match your description are not necessarily ethnical Thais: you might be one of them, for example. There&#039;s a difference between Khiikwai&#039;s article and some of the comments here: Khiikwai doesn&#039;t feel morally superior or in a cultural, moral, or even ethnical higher position, whereas some of the posters actually do. If trying to voice our honest opinions about Thailand means insulting ALL Thais, including the genuinely open-minded ones like Joy (whose posts are always great, full of good, fresh ideas, and at the same time humble and criticism-friendly), then let me strongly disagree: this is counterproductive and can only lead to bad ramifications.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tom, do you honestly think all or most Thais match with your description? And do you really think Joy doesn&#8217;t have a right to feel insulted even though she knows many (not most) Thais are actually roughly similar to the characters you depicted? You know what I think? I think that by being so harsh and overly direct and prone to generalization when you voice your opinions, you&#8217;re actually confirming that the many people in Thailand who match your description are not necessarily ethnical Thais: you might be one of them, for example. There&#8217;s a difference between Khiikwai&#8217;s article and some of the comments here: Khiikwai doesn&#8217;t feel morally superior or in a cultural, moral, or even ethnical higher position, whereas some of the posters actually do. If trying to voice our honest opinions about Thailand means insulting ALL Thais, including the genuinely open-minded ones like Joy (whose posts are always great, full of good, fresh ideas, and at the same time humble and criticism-friendly), then let me strongly disagree: this is counterproductive and can only lead to bad ramifications.</p>
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		<title>By: KWAI JOK FOONG ควายโจกฝูง</title>
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		<dc:creator>KWAI JOK FOONG ควายโจกฝูง</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 00:15:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry guys - I&#039;m going to shut this back and forth down, considering that it has very little at all to do with the original post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry guys &#8211; I&#8217;m going to shut this back and forth down, considering that it has very little at all to do with the original post.</p>
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		<title>By: hobby</title>
		<link>http://khikwai.com/blog/2009/01/25/the-abhisit-tragedy/comment-page-1/#comment-119</link>
		<dc:creator>hobby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2009 20:21:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&#039;&lt;i&gt;It is you that miss the point that the attributes *do* describe Thais. If they describe others as well, then fine but that does not invalidate the points I made about Thais&lt;/i&gt;&#039;

&#039;&lt;i&gt;Status-conscious, arrogant, greedy, dishonest and uncaring&lt;/i&gt;&#039; - that sounds like my fellow countrymen, and I&#039;m not Thai.
(I&#039;m sure if my fellow countrymen were asked, many would agree about the population generally, though few would admit they have those traits personally - I will admit to personally being all five at various different times, but think only one applies to me all the time)

They also describe humans generally, Thai&#039;s are human, so what&#039;s the point?

&#039;&lt;i&gt;...yet Thais stereotype Indians as dishonest, Laotians as being stupid&lt;/i&gt;&#039;

In that one sentence you have shown how sterotyping nations is what&#039;s really stupid.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8216;<i>It is you that miss the point that the attributes *do* describe Thais. If they describe others as well, then fine but that does not invalidate the points I made about Thais</i>&#8216;</p>
<p>&#8216;<i>Status-conscious, arrogant, greedy, dishonest and uncaring</i>&#8216; &#8211; that sounds like my fellow countrymen, and I&#8217;m not Thai.<br />
(I&#8217;m sure if my fellow countrymen were asked, many would agree about the population generally, though few would admit they have those traits personally &#8211; I will admit to personally being all five at various different times, but think only one applies to me all the time)</p>
<p>They also describe humans generally, Thai&#8217;s are human, so what&#8217;s the point?</p>
<p>&#8216;<i>&#8230;yet Thais stereotype Indians as dishonest, Laotians as being stupid</i>&#8216;</p>
<p>In that one sentence you have shown how sterotyping nations is what&#8217;s really stupid.</p>
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		<title>By: longway</title>
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		<dc:creator>longway</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2009 20:21:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tom

There is no point singling out Thais if everyone possesses the same attributes is there? Thailand has plenty of flaws,  but I am not sure who you think you are that you can pass judgement over a large swathe of the Thai population. 

For all your talk rationality its evident you possess very little when assessing Thailand and its people.

I will let you wrestle with what I meant with the veil for ignorance observation, I think its pretty self evident myself. If you wish to be pedantic about the way I have phrased the statement then may point out I did not said that stereotyping is a substitute for ignorance, nor should it be. Which is in fact what I implied in my observation. So I cannot see the point of your little word game.

Personally I think you owe Joy an apology, I cant see anything silly about what she said and how she said it, but I see much silliness on your part.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tom</p>
<p>There is no point singling out Thais if everyone possesses the same attributes is there? Thailand has plenty of flaws,  but I am not sure who you think you are that you can pass judgement over a large swathe of the Thai population. </p>
<p>For all your talk rationality its evident you possess very little when assessing Thailand and its people.</p>
<p>I will let you wrestle with what I meant with the veil for ignorance observation, I think its pretty self evident myself. If you wish to be pedantic about the way I have phrased the statement then may point out I did not said that stereotyping is a substitute for ignorance, nor should it be. Which is in fact what I implied in my observation. So I cannot see the point of your little word game.</p>
<p>Personally I think you owe Joy an apology, I cant see anything silly about what she said and how she said it, but I see much silliness on your part.</p>
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		<title>By: Tom</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2009 13:21:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Doug:
Nothing personal in what I said, my criticism is of the points she makes wrongly or badly. I am sure she is everything you say she is but that is a personal assessment and one should not be personal as you rightly but irrelevantly point out. Her views as responded to by me in defence of Thais were transparently silly and are at least as racially motivated as those she complains are racially motivated because they criticise Thais.

If a person makes silly comments, it is pointless to say they have previously made some intelligent ones. No? Otherwise one is simply being personal.

@Longway:
It is you that miss the point that the attributes *do* describe Thais. If they describe others as well, then fine but that does not invalidate the points I made about Thais.

A defence in court that a robber is less culpable just because there are other robbers would probably not carry much weight. Rightly.

&lt;em&gt;&quot;Stereotyping is just a veil for ignorance.&quot;&lt;/em&gt; What does this mean? In linguistics it is called a nominalisation - usually used to appeal to emotions where the rational case is weak.

&lt;em&gt;&quot;[ignorance] serves a purpose in many situations.&quot;&lt;/em&gt; Really? Perhaps it does in Thailand.

@Hobby: Please see above. 

Simon</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Doug:<br />
Nothing personal in what I said, my criticism is of the points she makes wrongly or badly. I am sure she is everything you say she is but that is a personal assessment and one should not be personal as you rightly but irrelevantly point out. Her views as responded to by me in defence of Thais were transparently silly and are at least as racially motivated as those she complains are racially motivated because they criticise Thais.</p>
<p>If a person makes silly comments, it is pointless to say they have previously made some intelligent ones. No? Otherwise one is simply being personal.</p>
<p>@Longway:<br />
It is you that miss the point that the attributes *do* describe Thais. If they describe others as well, then fine but that does not invalidate the points I made about Thais.</p>
<p>A defence in court that a robber is less culpable just because there are other robbers would probably not carry much weight. Rightly.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;Stereotyping is just a veil for ignorance.&#8221;</em> What does this mean? In linguistics it is called a nominalisation &#8211; usually used to appeal to emotions where the rational case is weak.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;[ignorance] serves a purpose in many situations.&#8221;</em> Really? Perhaps it does in Thailand.</p>
<p>@Hobby: Please see above. </p>
<p>Simon</p>
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		<title>By: hobby</title>
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		<dc:creator>hobby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2009 00:58:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&#039;&lt;i&gt;Status-conscious, arrogant, greedy, dishonest and uncaring&lt;/i&gt;&#039;

Tom: Are you suggesting those characteristics are exclusively Thai?

I would be interested to hear your stereotype(statistics) for a few other countries - lets start with each SE Asian country, as well as USA, UK, Australia &amp; China.
After that is done, why not move on to each European country individually, then Africa and the Latin American countries. 

Will any of those 5 traits will be repeated?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8216;<i>Status-conscious, arrogant, greedy, dishonest and uncaring</i>&#8216;</p>
<p>Tom: Are you suggesting those characteristics are exclusively Thai?</p>
<p>I would be interested to hear your stereotype(statistics) for a few other countries &#8211; lets start with each SE Asian country, as well as USA, UK, Australia &amp; China.<br />
After that is done, why not move on to each European country individually, then Africa and the Latin American countries. </p>
<p>Will any of those 5 traits will be repeated?</p>
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		<title>By: longway</title>
		<link>http://khikwai.com/blog/2009/01/25/the-abhisit-tragedy/comment-page-1/#comment-114</link>
		<dc:creator>longway</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2009 21:38:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tom: You utterly miss the point that the traits you describe are not unique to Thailand or Asia but exist in all cultures. 

The traits you describe are especially obvious in developing countries, as there is a lack of education and maturity and the rule of law is usually very lax, 

I find Thailand fairly middling in terms of its greed, corruption and vindictiveness on a global footing.

Stereotyping is just a veil for ignorance, it serves a purpose in many situations, but there is nothing particuarly clever nor attractive (though it can be funny in the right circumstances) about using this ugly episode as an opportunity to vent your hatred. 

I see you and OAH in the same light as I would see any Thai resorting to lazy stereotypes to pass high handed judgements about a peoples&#039; worth: Very childish.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tom: You utterly miss the point that the traits you describe are not unique to Thailand or Asia but exist in all cultures. </p>
<p>The traits you describe are especially obvious in developing countries, as there is a lack of education and maturity and the rule of law is usually very lax, </p>
<p>I find Thailand fairly middling in terms of its greed, corruption and vindictiveness on a global footing.</p>
<p>Stereotyping is just a veil for ignorance, it serves a purpose in many situations, but there is nothing particuarly clever nor attractive (though it can be funny in the right circumstances) about using this ugly episode as an opportunity to vent your hatred. </p>
<p>I see you and OAH in the same light as I would see any Thai resorting to lazy stereotypes to pass high handed judgements about a peoples&#8217; worth: Very childish.</p>
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		<title>By: Doug</title>
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		<dc:creator>Doug</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2009 18:34:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Don&#039;t be hard on Joy.  Joy is a refreshing voice among Thai people.  She comments intelligently on this and other blogs.  She is well read, intelligent, and open-minded, even when it comes to criticism of Thailand and Thai culture.  If you have disagreements with her, I think she&#039;s open to criticism, so you don&#039;t have to make it personal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Don&#8217;t be hard on Joy.  Joy is a refreshing voice among Thai people.  She comments intelligently on this and other blogs.  She is well read, intelligent, and open-minded, even when it comes to criticism of Thailand and Thai culture.  If you have disagreements with her, I think she&#8217;s open to criticism, so you don&#8217;t have to make it personal.</p>
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		<title>By: Tom</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2009 01:37:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Joy:

If I am reading your posts correctly you seem to be saying:

1. Nations cannot be stereotyped. And yet Thais stereotype Indians as dishonest, Laotians as being stupid (not without its irony really), and, it seems, Rohingyans as being fair game for being towed out to sea and left to die. It does seem that you people do it so often yourselves and yet when you are the target of justified stereotypes you complain bitterly; one of the less attractive traits of Thais. You might like to reflect on what exactly makes a stereotype. In many cases, it is simply an aggregate of people having similar experiences. Better to change the experiences if you wish to change the reputation you have. Did you seriously never hear of the 5 Ki’s that Thais use to describe their own people? Ki-ooat (boastful), Ki-kong (cheating), Ki-kiat (lazy), Ki-itcha (covetous) and Li-lohp (grasping). This is what  Thai culture says about Thais.

2. But you then go on to say that there is some truth in it all. Does the expression “you want to have your cake and eat it” mean anything at all to you? Or is it that you just want to pick and choose which bits are acceptable to your self-image?

3. You go on to repeat the oft-told fiction that foreigners don’t understand the complexity of Thai society and politics. It is true that many Thais like to see themselves as having a complex cultural system and an equally complex and inscrutable political system, but I have bad news for you. There is nothing particularly complex about Thai culture and politics. The culture is based on fear and a feudal class system, and the politics are based on corruption, vendettas and greed. Have a look at your own newspapers and see the way your politicians, bureaucrats, judiciary, armed forces and police behave and then see if you get any inkling as to why stereotypes of Thais exist. What’s not to understand?

I could certainly debate with you on this but instead I will give you a link to some extracts of a paper by a Thai psychologist who does much better than I could ever do in describing at length what I for one believe are the many issues that Thais have to address before they will be taken seriously in mature company. I am sure that reading it carefully will make you a much better commentator on Thai character - perhaps a little more objective and a little less emotional as well. I believe you will find ample evidence in there to support the perceptions of posters in here that Thais are status-conscious, arrogant, greedy, dishonest and uncaring of those in lower social strata. Nicely supported and documented by one of your own people.

http://studyinthailand.org/study_abroad_thailand_university/Thai_society_values.html

Oh, and by the way, there is often very little difference between stereotypes and statistics. In practice, stereotypes are just statistics we don’t like very much and want to ignore.

Tom</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joy:</p>
<p>If I am reading your posts correctly you seem to be saying:</p>
<p>1. Nations cannot be stereotyped. And yet Thais stereotype Indians as dishonest, Laotians as being stupid (not without its irony really), and, it seems, Rohingyans as being fair game for being towed out to sea and left to die. It does seem that you people do it so often yourselves and yet when you are the target of justified stereotypes you complain bitterly; one of the less attractive traits of Thais. You might like to reflect on what exactly makes a stereotype. In many cases, it is simply an aggregate of people having similar experiences. Better to change the experiences if you wish to change the reputation you have. Did you seriously never hear of the 5 Ki’s that Thais use to describe their own people? Ki-ooat (boastful), Ki-kong (cheating), Ki-kiat (lazy), Ki-itcha (covetous) and Li-lohp (grasping). This is what  Thai culture says about Thais.</p>
<p>2. But you then go on to say that there is some truth in it all. Does the expression “you want to have your cake and eat it” mean anything at all to you? Or is it that you just want to pick and choose which bits are acceptable to your self-image?</p>
<p>3. You go on to repeat the oft-told fiction that foreigners don’t understand the complexity of Thai society and politics. It is true that many Thais like to see themselves as having a complex cultural system and an equally complex and inscrutable political system, but I have bad news for you. There is nothing particularly complex about Thai culture and politics. The culture is based on fear and a feudal class system, and the politics are based on corruption, vendettas and greed. Have a look at your own newspapers and see the way your politicians, bureaucrats, judiciary, armed forces and police behave and then see if you get any inkling as to why stereotypes of Thais exist. What’s not to understand?</p>
<p>I could certainly debate with you on this but instead I will give you a link to some extracts of a paper by a Thai psychologist who does much better than I could ever do in describing at length what I for one believe are the many issues that Thais have to address before they will be taken seriously in mature company. I am sure that reading it carefully will make you a much better commentator on Thai character &#8211; perhaps a little more objective and a little less emotional as well. I believe you will find ample evidence in there to support the perceptions of posters in here that Thais are status-conscious, arrogant, greedy, dishonest and uncaring of those in lower social strata. Nicely supported and documented by one of your own people.</p>
<p><a href="http://studyinthailand.org/study_abroad_thailand_university/Thai_society_values.html" rel="nofollow">http://studyinthailand.org/study_abroad_thailand_university/Thai_society_values.html</a></p>
<p>Oh, and by the way, there is often very little difference between stereotypes and statistics. In practice, stereotypes are just statistics we don’t like very much and want to ignore.</p>
<p>Tom</p>
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